This is a Non-binary Body
"I identify as non binary and use 'they' pronouns.
I found it a lot easier to love my body before I had two children. It looks very different now and sometimes I feel like I don't recognise myself. Slowly I am coming to love my body as it is, but some days are harder than others.
Being misgendered drives a wedge between me and my body. I have to remind myself: this is a non binary body, because it is mine and I am non binary".